A popular girl's nightmare. I venture out to the Bourbon Pub alone Saturday night. I was without my clique, but I was fine really. Sporting a tight fitting shirt and a Boston Red Sox ball cap, I walked around the bar in typical swagger.I didn't see any cool people to hang with. I do see two individuals from the Misfit Gang. Hey, it's charity work... I'll brighten their night by my mere presence. I say,"Hi, guys!" with my legendary warm smile. I was greeted with giggles.I was taken aback. Why are they giggling? Don't they know who I am?! ...
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The Andrew Morris House in Natchitoches, Louisiana may never be the same after a gaggle of gays converged on the beautiful property. Unlike some B&B's, this is a gay friendly resort.This was my room:With each room having a Jacuzzi (some have double sized ones), there was plenty of hotness to be found:As I was the first person to arrive, I was greeted by two very good friends (Kirt and Tod). Kirt made me a wonderful Marrakech Express drink (Gin, Orange Juice, splash of orange flower water, splash of Grenadine). I liked it because I couldn't taste the ... Flag post
Have you ever heard of Natchitoches, Louisiana? This historic city was established in 1714 and is located in NW Louisiana. According to Wikipedia, Natchitoches was founded as a French outpost on the Red River for trade with Spanish-controlled Mexico. The settlement's site was established near a village of Natchitoches Indians... hence the name. You may better know this city for being the site where Steel Magnolias was filmed.I will be spending the weekend in Natchitoches with three Heauxmeaux couples. We are all staying at the same bed and breakfast (Andrew Morris House). Our wonderful hosts have assigned us our ... Flag post 
I am very sad that Ole Miss is replacing it's mascot Colonel Reb. This is nothing short of political correctness gone amok. What's wrong with having a white plantation owner as your mascot? It's tradition!It also pisses me off that so many schools have shed their Indian mascots. Instead of honoring a brave people at an educational institution, we choose to erase them from our conscienceness. Great. So, now we are left with a very narrow view of Indians as jobless alcoholics on reservations supported by casinos. Way to go you political correctness fucks!Hell... why don't we start ... Flag post 
In the last few months, I have been pondering a total career change. Since I have been at the same company for the last 17 years, I am ready for a new challenge.Why not a career in nursing? It fits perfectly as a rewarding career... I'll be making a positive contribution to society. The pay is good. My skills would be transferrable to anywhere (relocate?) and it would be in a field that is in big demand. That's important in today's crappy economy.The challenge now for me is patience. When I became aware of accelerated nursing programs for people ... Flag post
Are you a gay man living in your very own WOOF pack? Do you share the same den? Are you a happy WOOF pack? Do things get dicey when there is competition for meat?I am asking you this because I am trying to understand the dynamics of gay men and their brethren. Can there truly be harmony in a WOOF pack? Does nature dictate that fights for dominance must routinely occur for survivial of the WOOF pack?Let's say you share mutual hunting grounds. You find some meat. The WOOF pack leader wants that meat. You ain't giving up that ... Flag post 
Well, I am going to chalk up this Mardi Gras as one for the books. I hosted Carlos (aka "Papi Whore") all weekend. He was treated to cold weather, long walks to the French Quarter, and live gay drama theatre.What drama? Well, let's look at the first full day of his visit. Carlos asked to play with my iPhone at breakfast. Unbeknownst to me, he posted "I think I'm a bottom, what do you guys think" on my FB page. That quickly generated 36 comments. He cunningly deleted FB from my phone so I couldn't easily find out ... Flag post 
I have never seen the city of New Orleans filled with so much happiness. After the Saints Superbowl victory, it was as if we were all placed under an intense happiness spell free from any prejudice.It was the human condition at it's finest. Horns were blaring, bands were jamming, and people were happily marching down the streets. Strangers were giving each other high fives, hugs, and kisses. It didn't matter if you were white, black, straight, or gay. We were one city... one people... celebrating our team's finest hour.Congratulations to the New Orleans Saints... Superbowl Champions!!! ... Flag post 
As the biggest weekend of Mardi Gras approaches, I am CLOSE to being in decent shape. I will be in good company too. Durban Bud's sweet houseboy (Carlos) will be spending Mardi Gras with me in the BIG EASY. We'll try not to be too slutty, but don't judge us if we are. Laissez le bon temps roulez! And GEAUX SAINTS!!! KICK THE COLTS ASS!!! ... Flag post 
A stud named Drew flew into New Orleans to see me this weekend. I'd say he came at a good time because things have been a little weird for me. I've been so focused on working out hard for Mardi Gras, I haven't exactly been myself.Drew was taken aback by how quiet the Bienville house was. He had heard rumors it was a whorehouse, but found it eerily quiet when he arrived on Friday.I whispered and pointed, "The elderly couple are in that bedroom..." He whispers back, "Do they ever come out?" I frowned and shook my head "no". In ... Flag post
How are you liking your President now? Hmm...? I would take a gander and say he doesn't look that much different from George W. Bush.Let's get real. All politicians are full of sheep. You know it. I know it. We all know it. I am not one who hangs onto a soundbite and go "baa... baa.. baa..." to every bullshit line delivered.WHAT HAVE YOU DONE FOR GLBT CIVIL RIGHTS?! YOU HAVE DONE NOTHING!!!To placate the sheep, a cookie was tossed to us gay folks. I love how it was buried deep into the speech. Obama said... This year, I ... Flag post 
The biggest Mardi Gras weekend is a mere 2 1/2 weeks away. I have been trying my darndest to get into shape. This picture was taken today with my brand new Andrew Christian slutty swim trunks.I am hoping we get lucky and have warm weather for Mardi Gras. I sure would love to frolick around in this skimpy outfit at the Country Club (a clothing optional GLBT resort).My goal is to lose five more pounds of belly fat, so I can be at a good weight. Wish me luck! ... Flag post
