In your love-drunken stupor (which you are stuck in), you linger on your partner of several months… … She’s altogether lovely, a goddess from the heavens… Sweet, loving, intelligent, possessing a zest for life… You think she’s the most beautiful girl you have ever seen. She’s everything you ever hoped for… your dream come true. And then you look at yourself… … “Blah! I am too chubby over here, my hair doesn’t look great… my career is not having the break through that i hoped for… Not good-looking enough, not successful sufficiently… i think i suck.” Very quickly, this spirals down into… “I don’t think ...

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Facing a problem with your life, your sexuality, relationship, family et cetera? Write in to our advice columnist, Ling, with your problem. All emails are confidential and your anonymity will be preserved. Dear Ling I’m a married woman in my 30s, with two kids and a wonderful husband. Wonderful as he is, I know I am not in love with him, and never can be… I knew I was a lesbian even before I got married… but my parents were pressuring me to find a husband before my time was up, and so I did. He is a great husband and a ...