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Gay Relationships: Overcoming Shyness - Part Two  »  GAYTWOGETHER
( continued from yesterday )Self-doubt and self-criticism are at the root of much shyness. We have mistaken beliefs (“Everyone’s looking at me!”) that hold is back.These beliefs keep us from having the sort of meaningful, intimate relationships we want. A good first step is to notice the self-talk going on all the time between your ears.  Recognize negative voices that give you critical, defeatist messages.  Once you start to recognize them you’re no longer on autopilot.  A thought is not the same thing as a reality....  You can begin to assert some control.  A good place to ...
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Posted:  7/21 4:25pm
G2G Weekday Guys: Thursday Thinking Of You  »  GAYTWOGETHER
(click to enlarge)G2G Weekday Guys Collection ...
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Posted:  7/21 4:10pm
The Very Thought Of Him  »  GAYTWOGETHER
(click to enlarge)The Very Thought Of Him GalleryFollow Us On:   FaceBook  Pinterest ...
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Posted:  7/21 4:30pm
The Making of "Race Appeal"  »  This Week in Race
Temple University Press recently ran a two-part blog wherein we explained the inspiration for and process of researching and writing our new book, Race Appeal: How Candidates Invoke Race in U.S. Political Campaigns. In case you missed it, we're reprinting those for you below. Enjoy!StephenIt would only be a slight overstatement to say that my life changed when I met Charlton McIlwain in 2000. My world wasn’t shaken in the way that it was when I met my wife or witnessed the birth of my children, but my professional life over the past decade would certainly ...
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Posted:  7/21 6:15pm
Reader, I (Gay) Married Him  »  The Pretty Boys Club
D: Ok ok ok we're lameD: We were trying to wrap this upD: But the thing that was stopping us stopped us againD: Our terrible secretG: It's not exactly... I wouldn't call it... anywayD: So you remember ages ago? GoodD: Well I sorta maybe went to LondonG: Only after I came over to see you firstD: And we kinda, you know, "did it"D: With each otherD: NakedlyG: A lotD: And that was all good and fine ...
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Posted:  7/21 3:45pm
Deep Fried Chicken Parts! Part the Second  »  in the what?
In no universe that will ever exist should fried chicken look like this.But y'know something, it tastes pretty damn ok. Nevermind that the batter part comes off in one piece and you can kind of put it back on like a little helmet.So I'm going to go eat this meal while you all get excited thinking about how I'd be in my own damn cooking show. Pro Tip #1: Drink your orange juice out of a free wine glass so you can pretend you're not still in your underwear. ...
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Posted:  7/21 12:30pm
Las Vegas Gay Nightclubs Update, No Gay Days 2016  »  Gay Party & Nightclub Scene
We heard rumors that Share may be closing down and those turned out to be true unfortunately. Share, the largest LGBT nightclub in Las Vegas shut its doors last month. The gay scene in Las Vegas only has one dance club left which is not on the strip but on the gay Fruit Loop and that club is Piranha. But where can you catch drag queens and hot gogo dancers in straight people’s sin city? Wait in line for a dress code club with overly expensive drinks on the strip? Stay tuned because there are a few that are ...
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Posted:  7/21 9:53am
BOOK REVIEW: The Dark Forest by Cixin Liu  »  The Mad Professah Lectures
Last year The Three-Body Problem became the first book not published in English to win the Hugo award, the most prestigious award in science fiction and  fantasy last year. The sequel to The Three-Body Problem is The Dark Forest. This book builds more slowly than the first one and parts of it did not resonate for me. However The Dark Forest ends very VERY strongly. The last section of the book rescues it from being in the 3-4 star range and brings up to the 4-5 star range (on the Goodreads five-star scale).The Dark Forest is a very different story ...
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Posted:  7/21 8:49am
new home  »  esoteric diversions
I'm trying something new for the new yearhttp://esotericdiversions.wordpress.com/ ...
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Posted:  7/21 9:45am
The Roy Cohn Branch Of The Family  »  The Story So Far
I see the Roy Cohn branch of the family had its day at the GOP convention the other night… Headlined by the guy who just got the boot from Twitter for his racist and misogynist attack on Ghostbusters star Leslie Jones, an achievement considering the open sewer Twitter has allowed itself to become, on the […] ...
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Posted:  7/21 6:33am
iTunes Selection--One from Kate  »  A Life in the Day
The Man with the Child in His Eyes is one of my favorites from Kate Bush, released on her 1978 album The Kick Inside. The entire album itself is one of the best, too, and I'm not saying that because I'm a fan. Well, not just because I'm a fan.... When she sings this particular song, I always envision a young bride in the late 19th century, standing at the steps of a lighthouse as her husband ventures out to sea. As she wonders if he will return soon, she also questions if he truly loves her. It's beautiful song ...
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Posted:  7/21 6:26am
Model Rambut untuk ke pesta  »  The Real Men of New York
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Posted:  7/21 4:19am
Freedom School to be held today at Low Plaza  »  Columbia University Queer Alliance
From Stop Hate on Columbia's Campus:To concerned and interested students,A reminder that there will be a Freedom School today, April 13, on Low Plaza. The event will go from 12-5, with a series of 30 minutesessions open to all who are interested. We are focusing on curriculum(the core, nine ways of knowing, etc.), on what is taught and what isnot. This is an oppertunity to engage in a discussion on what thatcurriculum should look like, if and how it should be modified. Theweather should be nice, so come out, enjoy the sun, and activelyparticipate in shaping the dialogue of education. ...
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Posted:  7/21 6:30am
Links for 2010-03-24 [del.icio.us]  »  opera and cookies
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Posted:  7/21 3:45am
Bashful sun. #nofilter #latergram #jordanlake #silhouette [Flickr]  »  opera and cookies
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Links for 2011-09-21 [del.icio.us]  »  opera and cookies
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