::    Tom Ackerman , a photographer and art director who lives in New York City and a blogger at Religion Dispatches has a new manifesto since the passage of anti-marriage equality measures in California, Florida, and Arizona this month. He no longer recognizes marriage . Not at all -- at least not when he's talking to someone. "Yesterday I called a woman’s spouse her boyfriend. She says, correcting me, 'He's my husband.' 'Oh,' I say, 'I no longer recognize marriage.'"  Ackerman advises...(read more) ...