If there is anyone out there who still doubts that America is a place where all things are possible; who still wonders if the dream of our founders is alive in our time; who still questions the power of our democracy, tonight is your answer.”Barack Obama- November 4th, 2008Yes Mr. President Elect, we gays in North Carolina did get an answer that night.I live in North Carolina. North Carolina is not what I would call an exactly gay friendly state.On the other hand, I always thought the state of California was.Now California is on the other side of the ...