Dating is a multi-stage process:  first we get to know someone, and then we explore what it’s like being intimate with them. The problem is, everyone wants to skip the first step and get on with the second.  It’s a mistake to gloss over the getting-to-know-you process just because "your new guy" is a good catch. One of the best ways to get to know the person you’re dating is to help him get to know you.  To know the other, you must be known yourself.  You get valuable information from how he responds to you and you begin ...

The Seattle Tennis Alliance is your premier gay tennis association in the north west. During the summer we get out into the fresh air and enjoy the sunshine and outdoor courts. I know you are thinking sunshine in Seattle, right, there is only rain in Seattle, but we have been quite fortunate that our summer social doubles has been dry each afternoon on our Tuesdays and Thurdays. We started our play at 6:30pm and usually played until 8pm or longer if possible.Well now we are into the Fall and Winter season for social doubles and that is where we play ...